Making Gumbo

Fri, 18 Sep 2009

Why Making Gumbo?

Rupert W. Nacoste, Ph.D.Making gumbo is the way I like to describe my life as a university professor. Being from the Louisiana bayou town of Opelousas, gumbo is close to my heart. To Creoles and Cajuns of Louisiana, no matter where we reside at the moment, just the word gumbo resonates with family, childhood, good spirits, challenge and hope. As a university professor I try to bring that mix of ingredients to my efforts to teach.

Right now, I am in the fourth week of the Fall semester. As always, one of my courses is a 200 student, auditorium class. This semester that course is my favorite, Introduction to Social Psychology. My specialty is social psychology and I teach that course as a course on what it takes for a relationship to develop and be maintained. My goal is to challenge students’ romantic assumptions about how romantic interpersonal relationships work. We are at the point in the semester where my students are starting to realize that I meant what I said when on the first day I declared to them, “you’re not going to like this class.”

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Mon, 14 Sep 2009

Lagniappe: Something Extra

Lagniappe is a Creole-Cajun thing. That’s why Louisiana recipes can be a problem. Even when there is a recipe we always add, “…a little something extra.” That’s lagniappe. And that is what you will find in this section of the website; just a little something extra.

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Thu, 27 Aug 2009

Why Book Reviews

It started with Robert Pirsig’s Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. In my introductory social psychology course, in an early lecture, I bring up Zen. When I do I give the title and say that it is a book every one should read because the book is both entertaining as a story and as an intellectual adventure. Then I get to the point. In his novel, Pirsig says that there are two fundamental ways of understanding or knowing; romantic understanding and classical understanding. From there, my lecture is about the fact that when it comes to how interpersonal relationships work, too many of us rely on a romantic, surface, understanding and do not seek out a classical, scientific, understanding of what is the real dynamic of relationships.

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Tue, 18 Aug 2009

Book Review: Story Of A Marriage

Are secrets the story of a marriage? Andrew Sean Greer’s novel is about how some people live in their relationships with secrets.  Why is it so difficult, Greer seems to be asking, to talk to the person we say we love, the person we have married?  Is it because we begin the relationship holding back?  Is that it?

As an interpersonal psychologist that is something I rail against in my classes.  I say to my students if you feel you have to hide yourself in the very beginning of the relationship, that hiding will come back to bite you in the ass.  But this novel also seems to be saying that both people are complicit; that if one is hiding, the other is ignoring the signs of that hiding and making up a truth to help keep the secret, secret.

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Sun, 09 Aug 2009

Book Review: Wounded

Wounded by Percival EverettA storyteller leaves you with the story. There were people who lived, who knew or came to know each other, something or some things went on that had to be, and were, dealt with, and that was the way it happened.

Percival Everett is a storyteller.  He is black, but he is not a “black storyteller.”  He does not deny his blackness.  He just tells stories. Recently those stories have been about a black author who does not find success until he starts writing “ghetto,” Erasure; about what happens when a man (who might be black) is beheaded and comes back to life, American Desert.

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Fri, 07 Aug 2009

Book Review: Gabriel’s Story

I am a country boy.  I grew up in Louisiana, in a little town; Opelousas.  I grew up “in town” but “in town” was still “the country.”  Friends of the family and our relatives lived on farms with chickens, cows, pigs, horses and all that.  Still, even in town, next door to our house, our neighbor Mr. Reuben had pigs and chickens.  Like I said, I am a country boy.

That’s why it frustrates me that so much of currently published “African American literature” is about urban city life.  As a reader of books, I am frustrated by that fact of African American literature not because we blacks do not live in cities but because we blacks also live (and always have lived) in the country.

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Wed, 05 Aug 2009

Book Review: Blood On The Leaves

Somebody’s killing white men. But not just any white men. These are men who 40 years ago were accused of killing a black person.  Yet though accused under the weight of overwhelming evidence, these white men were never punished or even found guilty.  Now in Mississippi where the original racial murders occurred, 40 years later, one after another these white men are being killed. And these white men are not just being murdered.  No. They are being killed in precisely the same manner as was the black person they are accused of killing. If the black person was lynched, the white man is found lynched.  If the black person was strangled with barbed wire, the white man is found strangled with barbed wire. No doubt then, the killings are acts of vengeance.  But whose vengeance is it?

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